Situation Guide

"You look like you have an amazing story. Mind sharing it over a drink?"

"Compliments fashion. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I was hoping you’d look my way so I’d have an excuse to walk over."

"High confidence. Eye contact makes this line work."

"I promise I’m not normally this direct, but I couldn’t help but notice you."

"Honest, direct, and very successful."

"Aside from being hot, what do you do for a living?"

"Moves past the line into real conversation. The ideal two-in-one opener."

"I was looking for a reason to stay in this bar, and then you walked in."

"Direct and shows high immediate interest."

"I was looking for a reason to stay in this bar, and then you walked in."

"Direct bar match."

"You have a very comforting presence. I felt drawn to come over."

"Dating app match check. (Tested and approved in field)."

"Tell me your favorite place in the city, and I'll meet you there in twenty minutes."

"Bold, low stakes, high date conversions."

"If we were in the same room right now, I wouldn't be looking at my phone."

"High tension building text."

"I feel like if we started talking, we wouldn’t stop."

"Date check text."

"I’m trying to plan my weekend, and I’m wondering if you’d like to be a part of it."

"Bold and direct date invitation over text."

"I’m not trying to be dramatic, but meeting you made my week."

"Cafe regular opener. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I'm trying to decide if I should compliment you or just ask you out."

"Transparent, honest, effective. Shows intent clearly on apps."

"I feel like we’ve talked enough to know that dinner is a great next step."

"Direct transition from app chat to real date."

"I’m not trying to jump to conclusions, but I think our playlist tastes would match perfectly."

"Great conversation starter about music on dating apps."

"I don’t know what your plans are, but I’d love to be the highlight of them."

"Flirtatious date proposal on dating apps."

"I don’t know what your plans are, but I’d love to be in them."

"App matching."

"I don’t know what your plans are, but I’d love to be the highlight of them."

"Bold app opener."

"I'm not currently hiring, but you're definitely qualified for the position of my partner."

"Direct and honest. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I’m not usually a fan of crowded places, but I’m suddenly glad I came tonight."

"Sincere and romantic. Makes her feel like the highlight of the night."

"You look like you need a coffee as much as I do. Grab one with me?"

"College library classic. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I was going to stay in tonight, but I’m really glad I changed my mind."

"Romantic and sincere."

"I was going to stay in tonight, but I’m glad I changed my mind."

"Cozy romance."

"I’m not usually a fan of crowded spaces, but I’m glad I came tonight."

"Romantic and sincere."

"I feel like if we started talking, we wouldn’t stop for hours."

"High emotional connection. Use during a date to build chemistry."

"I'm having a hard time focusing because you look so interesting."

"Compliments fashion. (Tested and approved in field)."

"You have a beautiful laugh. I hope I can say something to hear it again."

"Sincere and intimate compliment."

"You have a beautiful laugh. I hope I can hear it again."

"Date chemistry."

"This might be forward, but I had a really good time tonight."

"The 'might be forward' disclaimer makes it charming. Ends on a high note."

"If beauty were time, you'd be an eternity."

"Compliments fashion. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I was going to say something sweet, but then I got lost in your eyes."

"Dating app match check. (Tested and approved in field)."

"Are you a campfire? Because you're warm, glowing, and I want to be near you."

"Cafe regular opener. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I'm not saying you're the reason it's warm, but you aren't helping."

"College library classic. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I promise I’m not always this forward, but you are very hard to ignore."

"Shows confidence and focus in DMs."

"I was trying to write a pickup line, but your name is the only line I need."

"Office co-working tease. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I must be in a museum, because you are a genuine masterpiece."

"College library classic. (Tested and approved in field)."

"You look like the kind of distraction I've been searching for."

"Self-aware flattery. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I was trying to think of a good opener, but I got distracted by how put-together you look."

"Low pressure, compliments style and vibe instead of just looks."

"I promise I’m not trying to waste your time. Let’s grab a coffee and see what happens."

"Low stakes date invite. Highly successful."

"I promise I’m not trying to waste your time. Let’s grab dinner."

"Direct invite."

"I promise I’m not trying to waste your time. Let’s grab coffee."

"Direct coffee date."

"I promise I’m not trying to waste your time. Let’s grab coffee."

"Direct coffee date."

"I'm not usually this direct, but you are absolutely magnetic."

"Dating app match check. (Tested and approved in field)."

"You look like trouble, and I'm definitely looking for some mischief."

"Office co-working tease. (Tested and approved in field)."

"You have a dangerous amount of charisma. It's hard to look away."

"College library classic. (Tested and approved in field)."

"Are you a light bulb? Because you just lit up my whole evening."

"Direct and honest. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I think you’re the missing piece to my puzzle."

"College library classic. (Tested and approved in field)."

"I'm not a magician, but every time I look at you, my worries disappear."

"Cafe regular opener. (Tested and approved in field)."